Resolving Disputes Without Going to Trial

Mediation in St. George for parties required to attempt settlement before proceeding to court in family law matters

Witt Law Offices guides clients through mediation, a structured negotiation process used to settle disputes in divorce, custody, and other family law cases. Mediation is required in Utah for most contested family law matters before a trial date is set. You and the other party meet with a neutral third-party mediator, often in separate rooms, while the mediator carries proposals back and forth until an agreement is reached or the session ends without resolution.


Mediation allows both sides to control the outcome rather than leaving decisions to a judge. The mediator does not make rulings or take sides but helps identify areas of agreement and offers suggestions when parties are stuck. Sessions typically last half a day and can cover property division, parenting time, support, or any combination of issues. If you reach an agreement, it is reduced to writing and submitted to the court, where it becomes a binding order. If you do not settle, the case proceeds to trial.


If you have a mediation session scheduled or are preparing for one in a family law case, reach out to discuss strategy and what to expect during the process.

How the Mediation Process Works in Practice

You are not required to be in the same room as the other party during mediation. The mediator will meet with each side separately, ask questions, relay offers, and clarify points of disagreement. You may bring your attorney, and in most cases, your attorney will speak on your behalf during key portions of the negotiation. The mediator's role is to facilitate communication, not to advocate for either side or impose a decision.


After mediation, you will either have a signed settlement agreement or a mediator's report stating that the parties were unable to resolve their issues. Witt Law Offices prepares clients by reviewing proposed settlement terms in advance, identifying non-negotiable priorities, and anticipating what the other side is likely to request. When clients leave mediation with a signed agreement, they avoid the uncertainty and expense of trial and gain clarity on custody schedules, support amounts, and property distribution.


Mediation costs are typically split between the parties, and sessions are scheduled through a court-approved mediator or private mediator selected by mutual agreement. In St. George, mediators charge hourly rates, and most sessions run three to four hours.

The court may waive the mediation requirement in cases involving domestic violence or other safety concerns, but in standard family law disputes, you must attend before a trial will be scheduled.

Common Questions About the Mediation Requirement

Clients preparing for their first mediation session often want to know what happens if they cannot agree, how binding the process is, and what role their attorney plays during the session.

  • What happens if we do not reach an agreement in mediation?

    The case proceeds to trial, and the judge will make the final decisions on all unresolved issues. Mediation does not limit your ability to present your case in court.

  • How is mediation different from a settlement conference?

    Mediation uses a neutral third party to facilitate negotiation, while a settlement conference may involve the judge or a court commissioner who provides non-binding recommendations based on the law and facts.

  • Why is mediation required in Utah family law cases?

    Utah courts require mediation to reduce the number of cases that go to trial, lower costs for families, and encourage parties to reach agreements that reflect their priorities rather than a judge's ruling.

  • Can I bring evidence or documents to mediation?

    Yes, and your attorney will prepare a mediation summary or statement that outlines your position, lists key facts, and includes supporting documents such as financial records, parenting schedules, or prior agreements.

  • What if the other party is unreasonable or refuses to negotiate?

    The mediator will attempt to move the conversation forward, but if one side refuses to engage or makes only extreme offers, the mediation will end without settlement and the court will proceed with trial scheduling.

Mediation works best when both sides come prepared with realistic expectations and a willingness to compromise on at least some issues. Witt Law Offices helps you assess settlement options, determine where flexibility makes sense, and decide when holding firm is necessary based on your long-term goals and the likely outcome at trial.